Penile size education should be made mandatory for boys along with sex education right in schools and colleges. Increasingly psychologists are finding that men’s feeling towards their penis starts way back from the locker rooms in their school days. The teasing by other boys and girls has deep impact on their minds even after they have grown up and have normal sized penis.
They are still stuck up back in their school days and think they have small penis. Many boys while they are growing up and in their early adolescence have smaller penis because the foreskin may not have retracted but once they are about 18 or 19 they have a full sized penis. Never the less they get teased about their penis when it is small. It has deep psychological impacts for boys and all boys should be taught not to tease about such things as it is sensitive for them and others.
It is like getting teased about their heights.
A lot of boys are short for along time in their lives like until they are 14 or even 15 and suddenly one summer break they shoot up to be extremely tall and reach a good height. But height and weight are all measurable and there are statistics which say this height in inches is tall and this is termed as short but when it comes to penile sizes there is nod at a related to what is a big size and what is not. Even girls get teased about having smaller breasts and not so voluptuous figure but they grow up and grow breasts and grow out of this feeling.
This is probably because they show and the world sees that the breasts are of a full size now. So it doesn’t really affect their confidence all that much. But for boys it is not so easy and even if their foreskin has retracted and the penis is now much bigger they don’t show and they cant prove to the world that their penis is big now and they end up thinking it is small.
Men who come from this thinking are increasingly considering penile enlargement schemes and scams. There are traction devices for penile augmentation, penile augmentation surgeries, pills, pumps and exercises. It is not difficult to find any of these anymore. They are available through magazines, internet and adult sex shops. A lot of these products claim that they will increase the size and girth of the penis.
While there are genuine brands there are many scams who want to cash in on your insecurities. Scientific researches do not attest any of the penile augmentation devices and pills nor does any medical organization attest any of the penile augmentation surgery done for cosmetic purpose. Most of the devices and surgeries are concluded unnecessary. Penile augmentation surgery cases are not genuine in most cases and it has to do more with psychiatric treatment than the surgery itself.
To start with the surgery itself is a vague procedure and there is no knowledge of what happens next, after the surgery. There is no research on what the patient goes through or what happens to his sex life and are there any side effects. There is no guarantee that even their penis is ok after the surgery. They are observed immediately after the surgery but after they are discharged what happens to them no body knows because the information is not tracked. Lack of knowledge is the biggest flaw the penile augmentation surgeries have as a disadvantage.
Many men wonder if their penis size is normal and this often raises the question that what size is correct, what is normal and what is not. Studies indicate that an average penis size measures up to 7 inches when fully erect and up to 4 inches when flaccid. If when the penis measures less than 3 inches when fully erect it is called micro penis syndrome and in these cases a penile augmentation surgery is suggested and approved. But even in cases of micro penises men have been able to have sex and produce children.
Many advertisements, be it condoms or sex related products, even undergarment ads show women fantasizing big penis sizes which are exaggerated versions. They also spread the misconception that gay men are obsessed with penis sizes. A long penis in reality will strike the cervix of the woman when inserted and can cause extreme discomfort and severe pain for her. In reality all the sensitive and erogenous nerves and nerve endings are located right at the opening for a woman and not at the deep end. So however long the penis is, all it takes for a woman to feel good is right at the entrance.
It doesn’t take along penis to make her feel good. Another revealing fact is a woman’s vagina is built to expand to the size of the man’s penis and this is the way nature intended it to be for women and men and sex in general. So even if the penis is small the vagina will open up to fit the size. Another concern for men is their penis should be long enough to reach the bottom of the vagina. Well there is no bottom for a vagina.
Where do they think babies come out from? So the bottom line is their penis can never reach the other end as they think. Length of the penis is not going to be helpful. Like every man’s penis is different, every woman’s vagina is different. Some are wide and some are narrow. The bottom line is the penis should have the girth to touch the walls of the vagina and that’s what takes to fulfill a woman. If the penis is too thick then it might hurt the nerves concentrated on the walls of the vagina. A big penis is not beneficial in this case.
First of all the suggestion for all men is to educate themselves on their own penis and get their facts straight. They have to really look up facts in general instead of constantly comparing their penis to their rival’s penis or their neighbor’s penis and take an individual opinion for themselves. If they still find that their [penis is not big enough then they should seek the advice of a sexologist who will be able to tell if the penis meets average standards on the world wide chart.
Men should also openly discuss it with their partners and take their partners opinion before deciding for them. Men’s magazines are increasingly publishing articles on how to increase the size of the penis and even suggest techniques to improve it. Most inexperienced men can do something stupid and hurt themselves following these half knowledge instructions. These instructions are not given by experts and the data they provide is not authentic.
Surgeries which increase penile size cost more than $10,000 just for the procedure and there are more costs involved. These procedures are not only expensive but they don’t give any guarantee on effectiveness. Exercises like jelqing are safer compared to anything else which is being offered but there is no proof that this method is effective. Stretching with weights exercise can cause a permanent damage to the penis.
So be warned about such dangers before you try them out. Vacuum pumps cause delusions and also can cause damage to the tissues. Pills are now proving to create hormonal imbalances after a while. So there is no guarantee that any of these techniques are safe, effective or will work. Anything you opt for is going to have some or the other effect and why would any man want to out his perfect body at risk for something which is vague.
Men can choose the alternative of mastering sexual acts and have a good time with their partner instead of thinking of the unachievable.