The popular media, particularly porn, has been a prominent advocate in the idea that “bigger is better.” The number of porn sites today featuring big penises is quite staggering, and many people believe that because many men are viewers of pornographic materials, they want to not only perform like porn stars, but have large penises like many of the men who are featured in pornographic movies.
However, one thing that you must understand is that there is a difference between length and girth. When a lot of men say that they want their penises to become larger, what they are actually saying is that they want their penises to be longer.
Think about it for a moment. When most people measure the size of a penis, they measure it in “inches,” not “circumference.” You are considered to be “small” if your penis is less than 6 inches. However, one thing that many of these people fail to mention is the perception that many women have about penis size. The truth of the matter is that many women prefer circumference over length. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out why.
The longer your penis is, the more likely it is that it can injure the woman during sex, especially if you’re thrusting very hard. Stabbing her insides with your penis will actually hurt more than anything else.
However, if you have girth, this is another matter. While there is an exception to every rule, there are many women who prefer girth over length, because it brings them great pleasure when their vaginal walls and opening are stretched by a wide penis. The motion of the penis moving in and out of the vagina during intercourse and expanding/contracting the vagina is quite pleasurable to many women.
To understand why it is pleasurable, think about anal beads. The reason why some people like them is because as the beads are pulled out of the anus, it stretches and then closes it, and the sensation is very pleasing. The girth of a penis can function in the same manner for the vagina. So even if you’re shorter than average, don’t despair. Increasing the girth of your penis, even if it is five inches, may prove to be far more valuable than increasing the length.